Growing at the Table
Insights on feeding development, learning to eat, and creating calm, connected mealtimes.
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The Sucking Reflex and Overfeeding: Why Babies Sometimes Drink More Milk Than They Need
The sucking reflex helps newborns feed from the moment they are born. But many parents are surprised to learn that this powerful reflex can sometimes cause babies to drink more milk than they actually need (especially during bottle feeding). Understanding your baby’s hunger and fullness cues can help prevent overfeeding and make feeding feel calmer for both of you.
Picky Eaters Turned Chefs: When Sensitivity to Food Becomes a Strength
Some of today’s chefs once avoided most foods on their plate. As children, texture, smell, and unfamiliar ingredients felt overwhelming. But over time, curiosity, cooking, and hands-on food experiences helped transform their relationship with food. In this blog, we share the inspiring stories of chefs who went from picky eaters to passionate cooks—and what parents can learn from their journeys.
Rebuilding Trust at the Table: A Responsive Feeding Approach
When feeding feels stressful, responsive feeding helps rebuild trust, safety, and connection at the table. This parent-friendly guide explains what responsive feeding is, what it looks like in real life, and how small shifts can make mealtimes calmer and more supportive.
When Is It More Than Just Picky Eating?
Not all picky eating is the same. Learn how to recognize signs of Pediatric Feeding Disorder or ARFID and understand when feeding challenges may need extra support.
Why Overcoming the Fear of Choking Matters When Starting Solids
Starting solids is exciting but for many parents, fear of choking can make it overwhelming. The months between 6–10 months are a critical window for learning to chew and manage textures. When babies get the right exposure during this time, they build safe, confident eating skills. Delaying textures can make feeding harder later. This post explains why timing matters and how to support your baby with confidence.
The Best Teething Tools for Babies 4-6+ Months: Expert Recommendations
This blog explores the crucial stage between 4 and 6 months when babies begin to explore textures, chew more intentionally, and prepare for self-feeding. As your baby’s oral motor skills develop, the right teething tools can significantly support their transition to solid foods. I’ve rounded up the best teething products to help ease discomfort and promote healthy oral development. We’ll also discuss how teething and mouthing play an essential role in feeding development, including how they support chewing skills, jaw muscle strengthening, and hand-to-mouth coordination. From improving tongue movement to encouraging self-feeding, these teething products set the foundation for your baby’s feeding journey.
The Best Teething & Self-Feeding Tools for Babies Starting Solids (Expert Picks!)
Starting solids is an exciting milestone, but did you know teething tools play a key role in feeding development? Beyond soothing sore gums, they help strengthen oral muscles, improve chewing skills, and support self-feeding. In this blog, we’ll share the best teething and feeding tools to make the transition to solids smoother and more enjoyable for your baby. Let’s get started!
5 Books to Help Prepare Your Cautious Eater for Thanksgiving
Thanksgiving is such a warm and meaningful holiday, but for a cautious or sensitive eater, it can be a lot to handle. New smells fill the house, unfamiliar dishes take over the table, conversations get loud, and suddenly there’s so much pressure around eating. For a child who thrives on routine and predictability, that’s a recipe for overwhelm.
Before a child can even think about tasting something new, they first need to feel safe with it. That’s why Level One of the 5 Levels of Food Exposure™ at Kids Feeding Wellness™ centers on Educational Exposure—helping children learn about foods through gentle, low-pressure experiences.
How to Get Your Child to Sit and Eat: Simple Mealtime Routines That Work
If your picky eater refuses to come to the table, keeps getting up during meals, or only grazes throughout the day, you’re not alone. Many parents struggle with mealtime battles and wonder how to get their child to sit and eat.
The truth is, mealtime success isn’t just about what your child eats — it’s about structure, consistency, and connection. When parents create a calm, predictable mealtime routine and eat alongside their child, the body begins to relax and respond. Over time, your child learns that sitting at the table means safety, connection, and real hunger readiness — not stress or pressure.
This article explores why routines matter, how to stop grazing habits, and simple ways to help your picky eater sit, eat, and enjoy mealtimes again.
When “Just One Bite” Backfires: How to Support Your Picky Eater Without Pressure
If your toddler has ever said “I don’t like it!” the second you serve a new food, you’re not alone. Research shows that the way we respond in these moments matters. In our latest blog, discover the difference between supportive vs. coercive prompts, get real-life phrases you can use at the table, and download a free one-page fridge guide to keep mealtimes calm and positive.
How Books Can Help Picky Eaters Try New Foods — Without Pressure at the Table
Helping a picky eater try new foods isn’t just about what happens at the table — it’s about what happens outside of mealtime too. Children’s books provide a pressure-free way to spark curiosity, teach positive food scripts, and build confidence around new foods. By exploring colorful characters and relatable stories, cautious eaters can learn that trying something new can be fun, safe, and even exciting. In this blog, we’ll share five engaging books that gently encourage kids to approach food with an open mind — no pressure required.
Helping Picky Eaters: The 5 Levels of Food Exposure™ to Build Food Trust
Picky eating isn’t just a phase—it’s a complex behavior shaped by development, sensory preferences, and a child’s level of food familiarity. At Kids Feeding Wellness™, we created the 5 Levels of Food Exposure™—a step-by-step protocol designed for children ages 2 and up—to help families and feeding professionals support cautious eaters in building food trust at their own pace. Backed by research and grounded in real-life success, this approach gently encourages exploration without pressure, helping children become more confident and curious around food.
Minimalist Baby-Led Weaning Essentials: Simple Tools for Starting Solids
As your baby gets older and develops new skills, you can swap out early feeding items for more age-appropriate ones to continue building independence and involvement. If you try to keep every single item you’ve used since the start, you’ll quickly find things piling up and getting in the way.
Keeping an organized cupboard or drawer just for your baby’s essential feeding items will save you time and prevent the stress of constantly sorting and cleaning. Think of it like this: the more pieces you accumulate, the less likely you are to wash and reuse the ones you actually need. Instead, everything builds up until you’re forced to tackle it all at once—which in the long run takes even more time.
How Mealtime Schedules and Routines Help Picky Eaters Enjoy Peaceful Meals
Struggling with mealtime battles or endless snack requests? Learn how simple schedules and routines can help your child feel secure and arrive at the table ready to eat. This guide breaks down meal timing by age, tips for reducing grazing, and practical ways to build healthy habits. Plus, grab your free It’s Time to Eat! printable mealtime schedule to make mealtimes calmer and more predictable.
Why Natural Food Teethers Deserve a Spot in Your Baby’s Routine
Your baby’s journey to solid foods doesn’t begin with that first spoonful of purée—it starts much earlier, with their mouth. From around 4 months old, babies begin exploring the world with their lips, tongue, and gums. It’s messy, it’s adorable, and—believe it or not—it’s a crucial part of feeding development.
One of the most overlooked tools in supporting this stage? Natural food teethers.
These aren’t store-bought plastic rings or silicone animals (though those have their place too). We’re talking about real food—safely prepared in a way that allows babies to mouth, gnaw, and explore without needing to swallow anything yet.
How to Support Your Baby’s Feeding Journey: Combining Spoon Feeding and Baby-Led Weaning
Starting solids is a big milestone—and one that comes with a lot of questions. Should you spoon feed? Try baby-led weaning (BLW)? Or maybe a bit of both?
At Kids Feeding Wellness, we believe the best feeding journey is one that works for your baby and your family.
This article breaks down how to blend spoon feeding with BLW in a way that supports development, encourages independence, and keeps mealtimes low-stress and enjoyable.
Whether you're new to solids or looking to troubleshoot picky eating, we’re here to guide you every step of the way.
5 Common Mistakes Parents Make When Starting Solids (And How to Avoid Them)
Introducing solids is a big milestone—but it can also come with a lot of confusion. From offering the right textures to knowing when (and how) to start, it’s easy to make a few missteps along the way. In this post, we’re breaking down five common mistakes parents often make when starting solids—and giving you practical tips to avoid them. Whether you're just beginning or need a little reassurance, these insights will help you feel more confident and better support your baby’s feeding journey.
Does Your Picky Eater Really Need Feeding Therapy?
Many parents feel lost when it comes to their child's picky eating—wondering if feeding therapy is the only solution. But what if there was a way to understand the why behind your child's eating behaviors and create a supportive environment at home without relying on therapy?
In this blog, I dive into the real reasons behind picky eating—from genetics and sensory sensitivities to developmental phases—and introduce my Feeding Foundations Session. This 1.5-hour personalized deep dive helps parents gain the tools they need to empower their child for a lifetime of feeding success—without feeling stuck in an endless cycle of therapy.
If you’re ready to take control of mealtimes and help your child thrive, this is for you!
Innate vs. Learned Feeding: Understanding Your Child’s Eating Habits
This blog delves into the fascinating world of how babies develop their eating habits, balancing innate instincts and learned behaviors. From their natural preference for sweet flavors to the instinctual aversion to bitter foods, babies come into the world with built-in tendencies that help ensure their survival. As they grow, their food preferences are shaped by repeated exposure, family influences, and the emotional connections they form with food. We also explore the role of epigenetics and how experiences can modify taste preferences, as well as the challenge of food neophobia—fear of new foods—which is common in toddlers. By understanding these processes, parents can support their child’s eating journey and foster healthy, stress-free mealtimes.
Top Baby Teething Products You’ll Wish You Had Sooner! (1-3+ Months)
From the moment they’re born, babies use their mouths to explore the world. Mouthing isn’t just about teething—it plays a critical role in oral development, sensory learning, and the foundation for feeding and speech skills. As a feeding specialist, I encourage parents to embrace this stage and provide safe, developmentally appropriate tools to support it. Early oral exploration helps babies develop coordination, body awareness, and self-soothing skills, all of which are essential for future milestones like chewing, swallowing, and even talking.
Whether your baby is just beginning to discover their hands and mouth or starting to teethe, here are my top recommendations for safe and effective tools to encourage healthy oral habits from the very start!